LGBTQIA+ Therapy

Online in Washington State

Individuals | couples | families

Helping you strengthen your sense of self, family, and community.

At Femme & Them, PLLC, we draw not only from our expertise, but from our own queer and trans family experience to offer therapy tailored to LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families. Our mission is to help you strengthen your sense of self, sense of family, and sense of community.

Femme and Them, PLLC is an LGBTQ+ owned counseling practice, created for and by Queers. We help LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, and families navigate a cis-heteronormative world to feel more liberated and empowered to live authentically.

You face unique challenges and transitions in a world where many people assume everyone is heterosexual and cisgender. Life transitions are made even more challenging because of these norms that are placed on us and the lack of specific resources for people and families like ours.

Everyday responsibilities, unexpected events, and life's challenges can sometimes leave you feeling disconnected from your loved ones and even from yourself. Pregnancy and postpartum, a loved one coming out, gender exploration, or managing mental health in a cisnormative/heteronormative world are some reasons why you may seek the guidance and support of one of our therapists.

Whether you aim to deepen the meaning in your current relationships or seek new, fulfilling connections, your journey is greatly enriched by working with the right person. At Femme & Them, you will be matched with a therapist who makes you feel safe and supported. When you feel safe and supported—that is when you will see true and lasting change begin.

We are here to support you through every stage of life’s transitions.

LGBTQIA+ Therapy

All of our clinicians are queer or trans. You won’t need to educate our clinicians about LGBTQIA+ issues or challenges faced by our communities.

Sometimes the term LGBTQIA+ really just stands for lesbian and gay, and maybe trans and queer. We are here for all of the letters+. Ace, aro, intersex, bi, pan, questioning and more - you are part of our community.

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Perinatal Mental Health

Perinatal Mental Health encompasses support for you and your family when you are trying to conceive or adopt; during pregnancy or postpartum, or if you experience grief and loss related to pregnancy (miscarriage, abortion, stillbirth, infertility)

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Relationship Therapy

Your relationships transcend traditional norms, and you need affirming therapy to support them. We are kink positive, and affirming and knowledgeable in the realms of ENM (ethically nonmonogamy) and polyamory, particularly as they intersect with queer and trans communities. You can speak openly and without the need to educate your therapist or defend your relationship styles and structures.

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