LGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy
Online Therapy in Washington State
We accept Medicaid and major insurance plans
Accessible Therapy for the LGBTQIA2S+ Community
Every clinician at Femme & Them is queer and/or trans. That means you can show up as your full self from day one without having to educate your therapist before doing the real work. We help LGBTQIA2S+ individuals, couples, and families across Washington State navigate life's transitions and build toward real, lasting change.
We are an insurance-based practice accepting Medicaid and major commercial plans including Ambetter, Coordinated Care, Community Health Plan of WA, First Choice, Kaiser PPO, Molina, Premera, and Regence. Quality queer-affirming therapy in Washington should be accessible to everyone.
Meet the Team
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Amara Valentine, Clinical Intern
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Bria Lewis, Clinical Intern
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Rebecca Sutter, LMHCA
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Yuuka Vonil, Clinical Intern
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Kaya Colin, LMHC, PMH-C
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Christine Romero, LMHCA
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HP, LCWAIC
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Cappy Shapiro, LICSW
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Our Therapists Specialize in Supporting LGBTQIA+ Individuals, Couples, and Families With:
Gender Identity and Sexuality Exploration
Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)
Anxiety & Depression
Trauma, Complex PTSD, and Minority Stress
Gender Dysphoria and Gender-Affirming Care
Relationship Issues and Communication
Coming Out at Any Age
Parenting and Family Building
Navigating Neurodivergence: ADHD, Autism & OCD
LGBTQIA+ and Gender-Affirming Therapy
Every clinician on our team is queer or trans. No explaining your identity, no educating your therapist. Just care built for every part of the community including ace, aro, intersex, bi, pan, nonbinary, questioning, and more.
Queer and Trans Perinatal Mental Health
Affirming support through fertility, adoption, pregnancy, postpartum, and pregnancy loss. We honor the full queer and trans perinatal experience including miscarriage, abortion, stillbirth, and infertility.
Queer Couples and Relationship Therapy
Affirming relationship therapy for LGBTQIA+ partners including polyamorous, ENM, and kink-aware relationships. No judgment, no assumptions, just therapists who get it.
Learn More about Relationship Therapy